How far do we people go to reach out for our goals? If it’s not our goals, but for good human intentions, would we be willing or able to do that? Who would leave the sun for the rain? And does this always must have a negative meaning or is it just a temporary state for the higher soul?
I do relate myself to this last sentence. I do leave the sun for the rain. I think everyone with a good conscience is willing to do so. But might not all be able to be strong enough to pass the trouble that it brings. To give a short example how I would see this clear pictured; Love is a big keyword, which visualizes the leave the sun for the rain quote.
Love makes everything being worth it, to go through the good and most important the bad.
If you love a person truly nothing else counts except the inner connection between you and your beloved one(s). Of course this might sounds fairytelling for you but this cliché-talk sounds actually very real for me though. Everyone has experienced this in multiple ways. For example a person that is so ambitioned for their profession and thereby giving up everything else that is normally important (the movie Whiplash shows this perfectly! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7d_jQycdQGo). The other could pass this through a love relationship in which could be complicating by circumstances. Such as long distance or toxic love. Where you know a person is not good for you but you can’t unbreak yourself from the chain because you always see the good in every loving person. Or maybe you witnessed this in a situation of an addicted person. Where parents standing unpowered, having paradoxical fights with their child not able to define the boundaries. And therefore just not able to put their kid on the streets. Tough love I would say. I don’t see love completely as a solely feeling of happiness actually. More of having a pure sincere connection that stays stable in every circumstances; the good and the bad. In worst case this means going through life by lots of struggles… and sometimes it would be just easy to give up, being a bit ego and letting go. But still I won’t do that because of the strong inner power of love. Could this lead to unhealthy situations, yes..
It could be really hard to experience the unconditional love. You could see it in a beautiful way in sense of fighting for the people you love. But also suffering for not being able to let go a person even when important boundaries are crossed.
Boundaries are to keep yourself save and not losing yourself by other peoples problems and projected negativity. In which you can’t make any difference in their perspective or getting in any control of that.
And, that’s tough thing. I experience this type of unconditional love in relationships and family-matters. I left the sun for the rain at moments where things are becoming hard and difficult to deal with the people I love, where I will fight with them or for them. Even when I know it hurts me to be around them.
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